I picture myself at a classy bar with a martini, or white wine in hand, paired with a yummy appetizer. All while, having a quiet but fascinating conversation with whomever I’m with.
They share something that fascinates them and I know nothing about, but I enjoy watching them light up about whatever they are sharing. And then the same is reciprocated – they watch me tell them about something the excites me. They light up, because I am excited about sharing it. This goes on, back and forth, till we are kicked out of the closing restaurant lounge. Then we call it a night, and hope to see each other again, because it was nice.